Dear Steve and Shirley,

I guess it’s my time to tell my side of the story. Yeah, we were friends. She kept telling me about how good her husband is in bed and I decided to find out for myself. One day I seduced him and we have been having sex ever since. Was I wrong? She said her husband didn't treat her right. Anyway, now he and I have a baby together. I got kicked out from where I was living and HE offered me a place to stay. What was I supposed to do? Me and my baby needed somewhere to stay. We still have sex but I’m doing it now because I feel that if I don’t he will kick me out. He tells me he loves me and I tell him I love him but I’m not sure. I told him that if he really loves me he’ll leave her and be with me. He makes promises but hasn’t done anything yet. I’m tired of living with her. I want her out! He doesn't love her anymore. He's MY man now. She needs to accept it and move on. What do I need to do?